With all the brouhaha over a connected future and devices that can monitor, make decisions and communicate are we doing enough to prepare our children to stay safe online? Are we, the digital immigrants, cyber-mentoring the next generation?
Parents today have a tough job bringing up kids in a high-tech environment that is not native to them. And for the safety of their kids in the virtual world, parents themselves have to learn and understand the good and the bad of the internet and be aware of the threat landscape.
The next step is to raise their children as responsible cyber citizens and the earlier they start the better it is and all said and done, parents are the BEST teachers for their kids
As McAfee Cybermum India, I thought it was time to find out if parents were on the right path to teach their kids cybersafety, so I approached some of my mom friends on Twitter with targeted questions listed below. I hope it resonates with you if you are looking at taking the first step to raising responsible cybercitizens
Q- At what age did your child start using the net? Did you have a cybersafety talk at that time or before that?
Most kids do not have a defined time when they first go online, so moms found them too young to discuss cyber safety. However, the new breed of young mothers seems to be prepared to handle it when the time comes.
As Banker Mom, Shruti Mahajan Singh says, “My child is still young but I would be talking to her soon about cybersafety, cyberbullying, cyber love chats etc. and how not to get affected by them.”
Yojna Sharma, a social media consultant and blogger, says her child was exposed to the internet at the age of 2 when he watched nursery rhyme videos under his mother's supervision. She explains, "Going forward I plan to regulate his usage for a max of half hour per day. I plan to have a chat with him probably when he is 4-5 and can understand things better but I have started exploring options on net safety like firewall etc."
Q1 What are the top internet usage rules at home that your kids have to follow?
Blogger Mom - Neha Jain has these rules for her kids:
Neha, you have covered almost everything. Great work!
Q2 According to the 2015 Teen Tween Technology Report by McAfee, 48% of the parents surveyed believe that the worst thing that could happen to their children is interacting with strangers online. What’ your take on this? Do you monitor your child’ online activities and keep tabs on online friends?
(A major threat online is that it brings the outside world right into your home! Your child can be approached by a stranger without your knowledge, something you would never allow in the real world. So how do moms handle this?)
Army wife and mom Jyothi Menon monitors her son online. She also follows basic safety rules like using security tools and keeping the laptop in a common area. She adds,"We have had a discussion about paedophiles and how they use false identity to lure unsuspecting children. He uses my mobile to WhatsApp his friends and is not on Facebook or Instagram yet."
Q3 Almost half the children surveyed last year said they have bullied people over social media. Do you feel there is a rise in cyberbullying? What should parents do to contain this trend?
Singer, traveler, InfoSec girl Parul Jain agrees."They (parents) should interact with their children about their friends. And keep track of day-to-day activities. Also (parents should) tell them about cyberbullying. Most of the time parents are not comfortable to talk about these topics."
Agreed. Parents need to break the communication barrier and discuss cyberbullying, stalking, abuse, morphing etc. with growing kids so that they can identify such behavior, know what to do, seek parental guidance and not get depressed.
Q4 Please share what you feel is THE biggest threat online and THE most important cybersafety step that all parents should follow.
Blogger and Stay at Home Mom, Madhu believes that the biggest threat online is "ease of access to any content and related fields that show up in search!" while family lifestyle blogger, Richa Choudhary thinks it is "is getting influenced by someone on social media or get trolled."- and both are right!
Madhu shares several cyber safety measures but ranks setting up parental controls as Number One on priority list. I particularly like the fact that she stresses on frank and continuous discussions with kids and the need for teaching them digital disconnect for a proper digitally balanced life.
Richa has the very same idea when she advocates limiting app downloads, restrict inappropriate websites from opening basically, closely monitoring your kids' web usage.
Thank you so much for your inputs ladies!
I genuinely appreciate your approach to ensuring cyber safety by applying the right mix of monitoring, mentoring and communication. It is heartening that parents are giving cyber safety its due importance and handling it rationally, helping to create ideal digital citizens who can handle the connected future of tomorrow.
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As appeared originally on McAfee Cybermum India's blog.
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